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Credit card statements for restaurants you’ve never been to. Phone bills with unexplained long-distance calls. Trips to “the barber” that take…hours? The signs may be subtle or suddenly knock you over with the realization that your partner or husband could be cheating on you. What do you do now? Find out for sure! Bill Mitchell’s new book, The More You Know--Getting the Evidence and Support You Need to Investigate a Troubled Relationship is a supportive, step-by-step guide that could save your marriage.
“If you suspect, even just a little,” says Mitchell, “that your partner or husband may be cheating on you, you’re living a life of doubt and suspicion that can eat away at you. Any form of adultery puts your life on hold and your finances at risk. You owe it to yourself to find out for sure.”
Mitchell, the “7-Day Detective,” helps you get results in as little as one week.
A licensed private investigator with three decades of experience, he cares about his clients. He helps his clients successfully cope with the reality of infidelity. “What I do in my practice and what I have designed this book to do,” says Mitchell, “is empower women to make decisions, based on fact, that are best for them.”
Whether your partner is starting to wander off or involved in a full-blown affair, it’s better to find out sooner rather than later--and on your terms. Mitchell’s book helps you stay in control, pace yourself, and get the proof you need through an easy, step-by-step action plan.
Mitchell and his work have been featured on the Fox News, Today Show, The Early Show, and Dr. Phil Show. He is heralded by the national media—Ladies Home Journal, Baltimore Sun, Esquire, Chicago Tribune, and more--for his cutting edge and compassionate approach to the crisis of adultery. Mitchell quickly uncovers the truth, wins courtroom decisions, brings closure, and rebuilds lives. The More You Know shows readers how to get the same breakthrough results with the techniques he uses every day.
If you’re living with the pain of not knowing, Mitchell shows you exactly how to quickly take charge of the situation and your life. You’ll learn: what relationships are most at risk, the eight most common warning signs, what to do first and why, insider techniques, investigative strategies that get answers, and--most importantly--how to recover emotionally, financially, and socially.
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Wednesday, February 3, 2010
Thursday, January 8, 2009
The More You Know - Dr. Phil Featured Book
Since Dr. Phil is known worldwide for his "relationship advice" through his T.V. show and his own vast array of relationship and self help books, I thought that The More You Know might be a worthwhile read. Dr. Phil wouldn't risk his reputation by representing a dud book would he?
Well, I have finally had the time to download and read this book from cover to cover and I have to say, Dr. Phil didn't let me down!
The More You Know by private investigator Bill Mitchell, is indeed an excellent book and definitely worth recommending! I would not hesitate to say that it is probably the most practical, informative and helpful book that I have read on the subject of infidelity.
The first thing that "hit me" about this 104 page book was the man, Bill Mitchell himself. He does not come off as some hot shot, shyster P.I. who makes his living from other people's suffering. Quite the contrary. He defends and admires the institution of marriage. Instead, he seems a very genuine, very caring man who believes that early intervention can help to rescue a relationship from the devastation of infidelity.
He understands and the trauma caused by cheating spouse and likens it to the pain of dealing with a death in the family. (He's right, I've been there. I sometimes felt it would have been easier if my husband had actually died!) He points out very clearly, the negative effects that adultery has not only on the adults but particularly on the children. Too often, the kids are not even considered. They are victims too!
Bill Mitchell's book deals with the subject of adultery knowledgeably and compassionately. He shares years of wisdom and insight that begins with your first suspicions. He tells you what relationships are at risk and what the eight most common warning signs of infidelity are. He will explain to you how he does his job and tell you what you can do to help yourself.
He provides you with the facts and resources you need to discover, react to and resolve your situation - by doing what is best for you! I am not going to ramble on about what's in this book or why you should buy it.
I will tell you that The More You Know is not just "another" book about infidelity written from a victim's or a counselor's point of view. The information presented is backed by statistics, scientific facts and years of wisdom. Everything you need to know is in there.
Bill Mitchell gives it to you straight and, for $20.00 a book, you know he didn't write it to get rich!
I even give him "kudos" for his information on "Adultery and the Church". Hit the nail right on the head with that one.
Get it…you won't be sorry!
If I could give it more than five stars…I would.
Learn More at http://www.7daydetective.com/books.html
Monday, January 5, 2009
The More You Know - Getting the evidence and support you need to investigate a troubled relationship
By Arlene Harder, MA, MFT
Review of The More You Know: Getting the Evidence and Support You Need to Investigate a Troubled Relationship
If you suspect your spouse is cheating on you, what can you do to prove or disprove your suspicions.
Affairs, whether lasting one night or several months, damage families even if one or both parties pretends it's not really serious, or that no one is hurt if it's kept secret.
At the very least, if a man is cheating on his wife, whether she doesn't know (or chooses not to see the signs of an affair going on right under her nose), she misses out on having an open and deeply committed relationship with the man she's chosen for a partner. He misses out on experiencing a marriage of faithfulness and honesty. Their children miss the opportunity to learn what a committed and loving relationship looks like.
In short, adultery ain't good for your marriage and you're probably reading this page because you have a nagging suspicion your spouse has strayed. But how can you know if your husband or wife is cheating on you (or your partner if you are in a supposedly committed relationship without a marriage license)? Furthermore, what can, and should, you do about your suspicions.?
Hiring a private detective to spy on your spouse is not an action most suspicious wives or husbands take. If they do hire an investigator, they don't do it lightly.
However, after reading The More You Know, you'll be much better prepared to recognize whether your spouse or partner is most likely cheating on you, what to do to protect yourself and your finances, and whether to hire a detective. The author, a private investigator and son of an FBI agent, offers a practical guide to approaching the possibility of an affair. He shares the many ways in which he has helped uncover and prove affairs in hundreds of couples he has seen over the years.
To set the stage for exploring infidelity, in the first chapter Bill Mitchell looks at what kinds of relationships are most at risk. Next, he gives eight signs of adultery. They are:
1. Defensive behavior
2. Changes in affection and sexual activity
3. Financial woes
4. Communication problems
5. Unexplained absences
6. Need to be alone
7. Pattern and lifestyle changes
8. Wardrobe renovation
Any of these, by itself, doesn't mean adultery is occurring or even right around the corner. But satisfying relationships are most often free of these characteristics (except, perhaps, the last, in which case a person may feel their natural sloppiness has prevented moving up the corporate ladder and decide to do something about it).
In any case, as you read examples of each of these, you can access the likelihood that cheating is taking place. You might also decide to take steps to change a rocky relationship so that an affair doesn't occur — for example, by reading and taking to heart suggestions in the articles here in Support4Change for strengthening your marriage to prevent future heartache.
Bill Mitchell's chapter on "Where it All Begins" offers a warning on how to avoid getting into a situation where the potential for an affair can grow into full-fledged adultery. Preventing adultery takes effort. For example, I have a neighbor who has a policy that he doesn't go to lunch alone with a women other than his wife. If there is business to discuss, he will do that in his office or he'll take someone else along to a lunch meeting. As a lawyer, he's seen too many cases of affairs that began very innocently, but concluded with ruined lives.
Of course, there are many places where lovers can rendezvous besides lunch. There are weekends and evenings (a time when investigators are most often hired to do surveillance), days when a spouse and co-worker are both not scheduled to work, before and after work, business trips, etc.
So let's assume you are fairly sure your spouse has been cheating on you, but you want to get proof. It would be nice if you could simply say, "Honey, Betty saw you with a blonde at that roadside cafe last Tuesday when you said you were working late at the office. Explain yourself." And then, in the better of all possible worlds (the best being a world in which no one cheated on anyone), your spouse would say, "I was just meeting with her to plan a very special event for your birthday." And you would believe him because he was telling the truth.
In another scenario he might say, "I've been having an affair for several months and intended to tell you but it slipped my mind. If it bothers you I won't do it again." Then you both kiss and that's the end of that. Yeah, sure. If he had an affair, he has a lot of damage to undo and you have a lot of exploring to see where you want to go from there.
However, given the fact that affairs occur in a climate of secrecy, if he is having an affair, the chances are that not only will he deny it, he'll be more cautious when he next meets with your competition. Further, once warned you're on to him, it's possible he may try to hide financial transactions, so that in a divorce settlement you won't get the money you deserve. A person who cheats by having sex with someone other than his wife is not beyond cheating with his finances.
Consider a case I heard in a lecture on divorce and negotiation in graduate school. The instructor was a woman lawyer who had been a therapist. Her story goes something like this. When her husband, we'll call him Joe, began divorce proceedings, he claimed the large amount of money in their bank account was a loan from his brother, Steve, his partner in business. Since he had to pay it back, he claimed it wasn't an asset.
To prove it was a loan, next to each deposit in the account book he had stamped the notation, "Loan to Joe from Steve." The same stamp appeared on each check Steve had written.
Unfortunately for Joe, his wife went through the drawers of his desk and found a receipt for the stamp used in both instances dated after he filed for divorce. Without that evidence, he could have gotten away with claiming he had much less than he did, and she would have gotten much less in the settlement. Deciding women needed help from jerks like that, she went to law school.
Anyway, back to my review of The More You Know. If you have doubts about your spouse's fidelity and want answers quickly, the book will give you good, practical advice on what you should do, which includes various ways to go beyond suspicions to getting proof.
Before I read this book, I hadn't recommended clients hire a private detective if cheating was suspected. We used therapy techniques that often eventually exposed adultery. However, I now see the advantage of hiring someone like Bill Mitchell.
If you do hire a professional investigator, you may not find evidence of your spouse's cheating in a week, which is the amount of time Bill is often able to gather the necessary proof.
Nevertheless, even if you don't choose to hire a professional, a person trained in surveillance can at least guide you in what you can do on your own. To help you find an investigator, the book includes a list of state agencies that license private investigators, for you wouldn't want to use one who wasn't licensed.
Setting out on the path of checking on a wayward spouse is painful. But it's not any less painful than not knowing the truth, for lies we tell and lies we believe too often destroy relationships beyond the point of repair. The truth may seem harsh if it is not what we want to know, but it's also liberating.
© Copyright 2006, Arlene Harder, MA, MFT
Review of The More You Know: Getting the Evidence and Support You Need to Investigate a Troubled Relationship
If you suspect your spouse is cheating on you, what can you do to prove or disprove your suspicions.
Affairs, whether lasting one night or several months, damage families even if one or both parties pretends it's not really serious, or that no one is hurt if it's kept secret.
At the very least, if a man is cheating on his wife, whether she doesn't know (or chooses not to see the signs of an affair going on right under her nose), she misses out on having an open and deeply committed relationship with the man she's chosen for a partner. He misses out on experiencing a marriage of faithfulness and honesty. Their children miss the opportunity to learn what a committed and loving relationship looks like.
In short, adultery ain't good for your marriage and you're probably reading this page because you have a nagging suspicion your spouse has strayed. But how can you know if your husband or wife is cheating on you (or your partner if you are in a supposedly committed relationship without a marriage license)? Furthermore, what can, and should, you do about your suspicions.?
Hiring a private detective to spy on your spouse is not an action most suspicious wives or husbands take. If they do hire an investigator, they don't do it lightly.
However, after reading The More You Know, you'll be much better prepared to recognize whether your spouse or partner is most likely cheating on you, what to do to protect yourself and your finances, and whether to hire a detective. The author, a private investigator and son of an FBI agent, offers a practical guide to approaching the possibility of an affair. He shares the many ways in which he has helped uncover and prove affairs in hundreds of couples he has seen over the years.
To set the stage for exploring infidelity, in the first chapter Bill Mitchell looks at what kinds of relationships are most at risk. Next, he gives eight signs of adultery. They are:
1. Defensive behavior
2. Changes in affection and sexual activity
3. Financial woes
4. Communication problems
5. Unexplained absences
6. Need to be alone
7. Pattern and lifestyle changes
8. Wardrobe renovation
Any of these, by itself, doesn't mean adultery is occurring or even right around the corner. But satisfying relationships are most often free of these characteristics (except, perhaps, the last, in which case a person may feel their natural sloppiness has prevented moving up the corporate ladder and decide to do something about it).
In any case, as you read examples of each of these, you can access the likelihood that cheating is taking place. You might also decide to take steps to change a rocky relationship so that an affair doesn't occur — for example, by reading and taking to heart suggestions in the articles here in Support4Change for strengthening your marriage to prevent future heartache.
Bill Mitchell's chapter on "Where it All Begins" offers a warning on how to avoid getting into a situation where the potential for an affair can grow into full-fledged adultery. Preventing adultery takes effort. For example, I have a neighbor who has a policy that he doesn't go to lunch alone with a women other than his wife. If there is business to discuss, he will do that in his office or he'll take someone else along to a lunch meeting. As a lawyer, he's seen too many cases of affairs that began very innocently, but concluded with ruined lives.
Of course, there are many places where lovers can rendezvous besides lunch. There are weekends and evenings (a time when investigators are most often hired to do surveillance), days when a spouse and co-worker are both not scheduled to work, before and after work, business trips, etc.
So let's assume you are fairly sure your spouse has been cheating on you, but you want to get proof. It would be nice if you could simply say, "Honey, Betty saw you with a blonde at that roadside cafe last Tuesday when you said you were working late at the office. Explain yourself." And then, in the better of all possible worlds (the best being a world in which no one cheated on anyone), your spouse would say, "I was just meeting with her to plan a very special event for your birthday." And you would believe him because he was telling the truth.
In another scenario he might say, "I've been having an affair for several months and intended to tell you but it slipped my mind. If it bothers you I won't do it again." Then you both kiss and that's the end of that. Yeah, sure. If he had an affair, he has a lot of damage to undo and you have a lot of exploring to see where you want to go from there.
However, given the fact that affairs occur in a climate of secrecy, if he is having an affair, the chances are that not only will he deny it, he'll be more cautious when he next meets with your competition. Further, once warned you're on to him, it's possible he may try to hide financial transactions, so that in a divorce settlement you won't get the money you deserve. A person who cheats by having sex with someone other than his wife is not beyond cheating with his finances.
Consider a case I heard in a lecture on divorce and negotiation in graduate school. The instructor was a woman lawyer who had been a therapist. Her story goes something like this. When her husband, we'll call him Joe, began divorce proceedings, he claimed the large amount of money in their bank account was a loan from his brother, Steve, his partner in business. Since he had to pay it back, he claimed it wasn't an asset.
To prove it was a loan, next to each deposit in the account book he had stamped the notation, "Loan to Joe from Steve." The same stamp appeared on each check Steve had written.
Unfortunately for Joe, his wife went through the drawers of his desk and found a receipt for the stamp used in both instances dated after he filed for divorce. Without that evidence, he could have gotten away with claiming he had much less than he did, and she would have gotten much less in the settlement. Deciding women needed help from jerks like that, she went to law school.
Anyway, back to my review of The More You Know. If you have doubts about your spouse's fidelity and want answers quickly, the book will give you good, practical advice on what you should do, which includes various ways to go beyond suspicions to getting proof.
Before I read this book, I hadn't recommended clients hire a private detective if cheating was suspected. We used therapy techniques that often eventually exposed adultery. However, I now see the advantage of hiring someone like Bill Mitchell.
If you do hire a professional investigator, you may not find evidence of your spouse's cheating in a week, which is the amount of time Bill is often able to gather the necessary proof.
Nevertheless, even if you don't choose to hire a professional, a person trained in surveillance can at least guide you in what you can do on your own. To help you find an investigator, the book includes a list of state agencies that license private investigators, for you wouldn't want to use one who wasn't licensed.
Setting out on the path of checking on a wayward spouse is painful. But it's not any less painful than not knowing the truth, for lies we tell and lies we believe too often destroy relationships beyond the point of repair. The truth may seem harsh if it is not what we want to know, but it's also liberating.
© Copyright 2006, Arlene Harder, MA, MFT
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs
Investigating an affair requires investigative skills, techniques, strategies and experience! Find out what Bill Mitchell, 7-Day Detective has learned from thousands of successful infidelity investigations.Since 1961 Mitchell Reports and their investigators has served clients nationwide. From coast to coast, this nationally recognized investigative firm is called upon when the tough assignments require professionalism and experience that changes circumstances.
Investigations of affairs reaches beyond 8, 18, 129, 729 Telltale Signs or 1829 Telltale Signs.
There's no judge or cheating spouse in the country that cares to heed them! A cheating spouse will express amusement at long list of Telltale Signs.
Proof is King!
All that matters when you suspect an affair is video footage proving who is involved, where they spent time alone, romantic inclination, any intentions, venues, length of time together, facial identification, expressions, photographs, statements, witnesses, receipts, documents, letters to support your allegations.
And your BIAS is the enemy in court!
Is He Cheating?
To be fair, you must approach this allegation with an open-mind but shrewdness. Take it from an infidelity expert with decades of “field experience”, testimony, hard work, risk taking and dangerous assignments, Bill Mitchell, knows how to cut through the lies, denials and fears. He gets proof and stops the madness. Is He Cheating?
Bill Mitchell will show you how evidence ends the nightmarish and unyielding grip that a Cheating Spouse creates. So focus on what matters most - getting the evidence! The More You Know the better off you will be. Your finances, health, emotions, future are at stake.
After reading "The More You Know - Getting the evidence and support you need to investigate a troubled relationship" and conclude you need help. Hire a professional private investigator and close the book on your fears! We can show you how or add you to our long list of satisfied clients. We have a network of private investigators ready to serve you nationwide.
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